DVD Review: Things We Lost In The Fire

I’ve always thought of Benicio del Toro as a bit of a sad sack looking actor. I sort of dismissed him as a disheveled rebel wannabe who needed to get some sleep already. Recently, after re-watching his brilliant turn as Javier Rodriquez in 2000’s Traffic and his equally mesmerizing performance as Jerry Sunborne in 2007’s Things We Lost in the Fire I was struck by his overpowering screen presence and obvious versatility as an actor. del Toro is able to convey more thoughts and emotions through his eyes than many actors can traject through pages of dialogue. You only have to look at del Toro’s eyes to see the heavy strain his character is under, that of a drug addicted man who has just lost the one person in the world who never gave up on him.

Things We Lost in the Fire is the story of Audrey Burke (Halle Barry) who loses her husband Brian (David Duchovny) when he is killed trying to help a woman being beaten by her husband. Duchovny, is surprisingly affecting in his brief role as a caring husband and father, who despite his wife’s misgivings maintains a relationship with his childhood friend Jerry Sunborne (Benicio del Toro). Sunborne, once a successful lawyer is addicted to heroin.
Now with the sudden death of her husband, Audrey is forced to reassess her life. Left alone to raise her two children Harper (Alexis Llewellyn) and Dory (Micah Berry), she finds herself turning to the person who knew her husband the best: Jerry Sunborne. Audrey allows Jerry to stay in a spare room in the garage. Before long, he begins attending 12-step meetings and seeing some meaning in his life. Jerry also becomes a father figure to Audrey’s children. In time, Audrey become close enough to Jerry to have him hold her so she can go to sleep. He also becomes friends with Brian’s timid friend and business associate Howard Glassman (John Caroll Lynch) who gets Jerry exercising and offers him a job in his office.
Though viewers are naturally supposed to feel empathy for Audrey Burke, she is not a sympathetic character. Quick to anger, Audrey blows a gasket when Jerry knows where Harper is when she doesn’t show up for school one day, because Brian had told him in confidence that father and sometimes played hooky to go to the movies. I thought Audrey’s eyes were going to pop right out of her head when she shrieked at Jerry because he had gotten Dory to stick his head underwater and Brian could not. All of these could have been sympathetic moments, but Barry plays the role with such over the top intensity, at times it feels like she’s using the Joan Crawford of Mommie Dearest fame as her dramatic acting model. Unlike her easy ebb and flow of emotional turmoil she displayed in 2001’s Monster’s Ball, Berry seems to struggle with the wide range of emotions Audrey is forced to deal with.
After the water incident with Dory, Audrey asks Jerry to leave the house. Predictably this sends him into a heroin binge. Audrey quickly realizes her mistake and has her brother Neal (Omar Benson Miller) and one of Jerry´s fellow Narcotics Anonymous attendees Kelly (Alison Lohman) help Jerry become clean again and cement his position as a close friend of the Burke family.
Director Susanne Bier has made the eyes of del Toro and Berry the overwhelming focus of Things We Lost in the Fire. Bier has instituted close up after close up to reveal emotions. While not as effective for Berry, del Toro’s amazingly expressive eyes add to the agony of the scenes in which he is attempting to come off heroin.
While the screenplay by Allan Loeb is an admirable look at loss and the difficulties of drug abuse, the story almost seems a little to flawless at times. Audrey’s husband has died tragically, but he has left her with all the money she’ll ever need and Jerry is able to safely come off heroin in a garage apartment with just the help of friends. In both of these instances, I doubt few would argue that most times real life doesn’t play out that way. For me, some of the unrealistic setting sometimes made it hard to feel the intense level of emotion Bier and Loeb seemed to be looking for. However, despite the weaknesses of The Things We Lost in the Fire, Benicio del Toro delivers a performance worth watching.
Things We Lost in the Fire was shot in 2.35:1 framed 35mm film. The DVD preserves the widescreen format. The sound is presented in English 5.1 Dolby Digital. The DVD also provides French and Spanish 5.1 mixes and subtitles for all three supported languages.
The special features provided with Things We Lost in the Fire are pretty standard fare. “A Discussion About Things We Lost in the Fire (20:24), features director Susanne Bier, writer Allan Loeb, producer Sam Mendes and stars Halle Berry and Benicio del Toro discussing their involvement with the film. There is no real behind the scenes footage, but since all the films principles are involved, the documentary is worth watching. The Seven deleted scenes (9:25) can be played collectively of separately. The theatrical trailer is also included.